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March 2012

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Mar 28, 20121 note
Life = made.

So not to get all Tumblr-braggy (see what I did there?), but um THIS JUST HAPPENED.

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This is the best moment of my life and I’m wearing oversized stained sweatpants.

Mar 26, 201243 notes
how did you get to where you are? job wise I mean. I want to write, but I'm still in college. any advice for what I should do in the meantime?

My advice: Write!

Or speak or create or build or organize — do whatever it is that drives you. It sounds like writing is your thing, though, so just start doing it. Don’t wait for someone to offer you an opportunity; don’t assume that you need to write for someone else’s paper / publication / website / blog/ whatever. Create your own space, whether that’s a blog or a zine or a journal, and write every day. If you want to be a professional writer/journalist/blogger, start writing in a public space (like your own blog) so that you can build up a collection of posts and clips.

I’m actually not a professional writer, but I do sometimes get paid to write. I started writing online when I was in college, and I kept writing consistently. I found an online community (as far as the feminist blogosphere is an online community) where my work seemed to fit in, and I made an effort to talk to other feminist writers, to email and chat with them, and sometimes to meet them in person. I used my website to promote the work of other feminist writers, activists and thinkers. I went to conferences and met people in person. I joined feminist and political listserves and engaged in conversations. I interacted with other writers and editors on Twitter, and dropped folks emails to say “Hey I loved what you wrote here.”

Those interactions have led to connections with editors, which have led to more writing opportunities. And I’ve made an effort to tell my editors about other female writers whose work is good and not getting enough attention.

But to get there, you have to write. Write even though writing in public is scary sometimes. Write even though a lot of us — women especially, in my experience — don’t feel entitled to write in public spaces, especially about any topic they aren’t thoroughly versed in. Write even though it can be hard to hit “publish” without editing something 500 times over. Write, and try to write your best every time, and create quality pieces as often as you can. Write, even if you aren’t an expert — do you think any of the dudes on Daily Kos or in Slate or wherever know 100% about every issue they feel entitled to discuss? (No, they absolutely do not). Write with the understanding that you don’t have to be entirely knowledgeable on the front end, but you do have a responsibility to learn — much of the best writing is from the perspective of the writer as student, trying to sort through the available information to find truths and answers. Write pieces that are explorations, not just position statements. Write thoughtfully, and don’t be afraid to be wrong. Just get used to sitting down and writing, even if you aren’t sure what to say.

That’s what everyone says, right? “Just go write!” as if it’s that easy. It’s tough. Sitting down and writing when you aren’t even sure what to say is tough. That’s why it takes practice. There’s no other way to do it.

And there’s no better advice for how to write. There is, though, better advice on how to get your writing published when you’re just starting out. First, publish yourself. Once you have a body of work online (even if it’s a blog or a Tumblr), you’ll have something you can show an editor when you’re pitching pieces. And there’s no reason you can’t pitch pieces while you’re in college. If you have an idea, think through the publications you read, and consider which of them might give your piece an appropriate home. If you’re a new writer, I would start at some smaller publications, since a place like the NYTimes gets a million pitches a day and they tend to rely more heavily on name recognition. So think of a publication that might feature the kind of piece you want to write, but hasn’t yet featured a piece that’s the same or similar to what you have in mind. Best-case scenario is that after a bit of time writing on the internet, you have some connection to the editor of the publication you have in mind, and you can ask a friend or other writer to do an e-intro. If not, you can send in a cold pitch. Write up a brief and punchy one-paragraph description of the piece — what you want to write about, why it’s important, why you are the appropriate person to write about it (if you have a particular background or access to an individual, that’s helpful), what your particular angle is, who you’ll interview for the piece (if it’s the kind of piece that needs quotes), and who you are (no need to say you’re a college student, unless that’s relevant — you’re a writer, so include info on your writing background). Email it to the editor, with a subject line making it clear that it’s a pitch (for example, “Pitch: How to Write While You’re Still in College”). You might have to pitch a piece at twenty different publications before someone bites; you might have to tweak the pitch, or scrap it and pitch something different. That’s ok! I’ve pitched dozens of pieces that never saw life as a real article. So has every working writer out there. Keep trying.

In the meantime, though, just write. If you have something to say, say it — and don’t feel like you’re not entitled to just because you’re in college, or because you’re not an expert, or because there’s a chance you’ll write something imperfect (you will write many things that are imperfect; you will soon realize that it will neither kill you nor tank your career). But writing confidently and well takes practice. The best plan is to start now.

I hope that helps. Good luck! Go write!

Mar 26, 20126 notes
Mar 25, 2012212,702 notes
“To unwind, it depends on how tired I am. Sometimes I read a little bit. Lately, I play with my cat, Choupette. The cat always stays home, and when I leave, the maid takes care of her. The cat is like a very refined object; she doesn’t go into the street, and she doesn’t go to other places. She is a spoiled princess.” —Karl Lagerfeld describes a typical day in his life, in Bazaar.
Mar 25, 20121 note
#fashion #karl lagerfeld #my hero #cats
“I hate the word dinner, if you have an important dinner. Every dinner is important; you should never be without a dinner, but this I’m a little tired of. I did a lot of it in my time.” —Karl Lagerfeld describes a typical day in his life, in Bazaar.
Mar 25, 2012
#fashion #karl lagerfeld #my hero
“I never have lunch, but when I do, I ask them to bring it to me in the house. I actually have two houses. This house here, it’s only for sleeping and sketching, and I have another house two-and-a-half meters away for lunch and dinner and to see people, and where the cook is and all that.” —Karl Lagerfeld describes a typical day in his life, in Bazaar.
Mar 25, 2012
#fashion #karl lagerfeld #my hero
“My dressing room is so full that I can only wear what I see on top of all the racks. I still have all my clothes form 10 years ago from Dior, but I think I will give them back to Dior for the museum. I have pieces that are unique pieces that I will never wear again, because life is different now, you know. I used to fax a lot, but people don’t have faxes anymore.” —Karl Lagerfeld describes a typical day in his life, in Bazaar.
Mar 25, 20121 note
#karl lagerfeld #fashion #my hero #technology
“When I’m ready, I soak in the bathtub, if you really want to know. I used to have a product I loved, by Shu Uemura, but they don’t make it anymore, so I found a French product that softens the water; it’s a hundred years old. I put half a bottle in the bathtub. I exercise very little because my doctor said it’s not necessary. I did a lot when I was very young, and all you do when you’re young stays. So it’s not the problem as with people who started later. I’m very flexible; I have no problems.” —Karl Lagerfeld describes a typical day in his life, in Bazaar.
Mar 25, 20122 notes
#fashion #karl #my
“I sleep seven hours. If I go to bed at two, I wake up at nine. If I got to bed at midnight, I wake up at seven. I don’t wake up before — the house can fall apart, but I sleep for seven hours. I wear a long, full-length white shirt, in a material called poplin imperial, made for me by Hilditch & Key in Paris after a design of a 17th-century men’s nightshirt I saw at the Victoria and Albert Museum.” —Karl Lagerfeld describes a typical day in his life, in Bazaar.
Mar 25, 2012
#fashion #karl lagerfeld #my hero
Mar 24, 2012918 notes
Mar 23, 20121,838 notes
“People are going to be naturally predisposed to dislike sisters who are doing it for themselves. And it’s crazy, and it’s not just men; it’s very often other women … There seems to be this expectation of: ‘Hold on, lady. You just stay in your place. Don’t try to reach for too much.’ ” —Jon Hamm
Mar 23, 201235 notes
Mar 22, 201232,199 notes
Cur Non: How Occupy Wall Street Co-Opted The Million Hoodie March by Elon James White → meredithmo.tumblr.com

With chants of “We are the 99%” and signage to that effect as well, I was a little thrown off. I thought the purpose of this march was to bring awareness to the death of a young boy. Soon after the march started confusion was all around. Which way were we marching? Who was leading the charge?…

Mar 22, 201210 notes
“I don’t normally address false reporting in the media but this week I would like to clarify something. Last week, The New York Times inferred that I used a ghostwriter on my cookbook, My Father’s Daughter, which to me means someone else wrote the recipes and the text. That is not the case. My Father’s Daughter was a three year labor of love, a collection of the food I make and serve loved ones, an ode to my dad. I had lots of tremendous assistance with things like note taking, recipe testing, logistical planning, but the recipes and words are all mine and come from my heart. Now, on to the fun stuff…” —

Gwyneth Paltrow, media watchdog: Shots. Fired. Goop. Do. (via bmichael)

(Also, doesn’t she mean “implied” and not “inferred”?)

Mar 22, 20127 notes
Actual Conversations.

Jill: So of all the clothes you tried on, what are you going to get?

Anne: I don’t know. I loved that long skirt, but it’s really expensive, even wholesale.

Jill: How expensive?

Anne: $500.

Jill: Whoa. That is really pricey for a basic skirt. WFT is it made out of? Angel hair?

Anne: No, small Tibetan children’s prayers.

Mar 22, 20122 notes
#fashion #oh to be rich
Mar 22, 20124 notes
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